Some zodiacs naturally prioritize themselves. They don’t have a problem demanding what they want because they know they deserve it. But other zodiacs have trouble focusing on themselves because they care so deeply about others. They’re constantly ignoring what they want to help out their family and friends. But that isn’t always the healthiest route to take. It doesn’t always lead to the best outcome, for anyone involved. Here are a few zodiacs who are finally learning to put themselves first in 2023:
Cancer, you’ve spent your whole life trying to do the right thing. The sensible thing. The thing that will make your parents and partners and peers love you more. But this has backfired more times than you can count. It has caused others happiness at the expense of your own. Most of the time, you don’t even admit when you’re unhappy because you don’t want to bring down the mood. You don’t want to be the person who complains too much and disturbs the peace. But that needs to change. Your feelings don’t deserve to be hidden behind closed doors. They deserve to be heard. In 2023, you need to put yourself first. You need to ask yourself what you want and put effort into achieving it. Forget what others say. This is your life. You have the final say.
You aren’t a typical people-pleaser, so it took you a long time to realize that you weren’t putting yourself first. You have been putting your work first. Your reputation. Your potential for success. And that needs to change. Although it’s wonderful that you have huge goals that you’re willing to work hard to achieve, there comes a point when you need to slow down. When you need to take a break and focus on your mind and body for a change. If you keep pushing yourself to the point of exhaustion, you’re going to burn out and you won’t get anything done. It’s better for you to learn the proper way to treat yourself. Learn to put yourself and your well-being ahead of your work. In 2023, don’t keep going until you fall down. Listen to your mind and body. Respect your mind and body.
Gemini, you want to make everyone around you feel comfortable. You want to make them laugh out loud and feel like they can come to you with anything. But, really, you should set boundaries. You shouldn’t let others use you whenever they please. Set some ground rules. Say no when you’re unable to commit to an event or favor instead of forcing yourself to be there for everyone who asks. In 2023, remember that you’re allowed to conserve your energy when you’re feeling exhausted. You’re allowed to spend time with yourself instead of going out and socializing at every opportunity. Your family and friends will survive without you. They are more capable than you realize. They’ve got this, with or without you.
Libra, you’ve always shied away from confrontation because you want everyone to be happy. You don’t want to cause any hurt feelings or start any drama. But it’s not wrong to share your opinion with the world. If people genuinely care about you, then they’ll want to know your true feelings. They’ll want you to feel safe and comfortable in their presence. If someone is making you feel bad about yourself, speak up. Or walk away. You don’t have to endure pain. You don’t have to put yourself through that in 2023.