The ability to keep calm is very important in any relationship, especially when a small disagreement can turn into a major problem. Conflicts often get worse when you don’t take care to stop in time!
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
People born under the sign of Aries are very busy and know that a long discussion is not useful in resolving a conflict.
The longer it takes, the more heated the discussion will become. Thus, feelings can be triggered and misunderstandings will be inevitable. Aries prefer to schedule a discussion and set a time limit for it. The optimal duration is half an hour. If more is needed, Aries is open to extending it a little longer.
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
An angry Taurus is not someone you want to argue with.
So to avoid making the situation worse, he will need a moment to calm down before having a conversation. If he still feels extremely nervous, he will leave the discussion for another time. Stepping away to manage their feelings can help prevent aggressive reactions.
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
Resolving conflicts of any kind, but especially in relationships, is Gemini’s superpower.
They are gifted at communication, so keeping the peace as a couple is something they instinctively know how to do. The first thing Gemini will do is say what they think honestly, but without malice. They don’t want to cause any pain, they just want to say how they feel and where it hurts.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
Cancers do not want to cause unnecessary suffering to a loved one.
So, try to tackle problems as they arise. Cancers don’t want to internalize their feelings and have negative feelings grind on them inside, so they try not to hold grudges, hold grudges, or take refuge in anger or disappointment. Cancers want to have an open dialogue, not block any avenue of communication.
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
Leo is very good at communication.
What he does to maintain peace in a relationship is to take full responsibility for his actions, needs, behavior and words. Try to use the pronoun “I” as often as possible so that when sharing your thoughts and feelings, your loved one does not feel attacked. Leo is able to create a safe environment for conflict resolution.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
Virgos know a lot about problem solving, so they are very logical and practical when it comes to resolving conflicts in their relationships.
The pragmatic side of Virgo knows that instead of asking the loved one to change, it is better to suggest that they express their ideas and show their contribution to finding solutions. Acting together is an effective way to get through any relationship challenge. Virgos will not give up on a relationship when it becomes difficult, but will find ways to fix it.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
Libras hate conflict, but when it happens, they know it’s better to resolve it than avoid it.
Libras like things to be fair and balanced, so they always try to give equal time to their loved one so that they have the opportunity to discuss their own concerns, worries and solutions. Since Libras are open to other people’s perspectives, they are usually open to what their partner has to say and will take any suggestions into consideration.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
Scorpios can sometimes act out of pain or anger, but since this sign is very intelligent, they know how to hold back before saying too much or taking extreme measures.
Scorpios will try to figure out what is causing them pain before confronting their partner. They will look for solutions that benefit both parties. Scorpios will also try not to judge, insult, be dismissive, sarcastic, or roll their eyes when trying to resolve a conflict.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
Conflicts in the couple make Sagittarius feel very uncomfortable.
So his first instinct is to stay out of the discussion. However, if his relationship means anything to him, he knows that finding a way to a peaceful negotiation is crucial. Sagittarians are open-minded, so when trying to resolve a conflict with their loved one, they will encourage them to be honest. They will listen carefully to understand her better and see things from her point of view.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
When trying to resolve a conflict with a loved one, Capricorn knows not to give the situation more importance than their relationship.
His intention will be to resolve a dispute to the satisfaction of both parties, not just himself. He’s not interested in winning an argument if it means destroying the relationship. Capricorns tend to plan how they will approach their partner, suggest ways to solve the problem, and solve it at some point.
Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)
Aquarians are able to stay rational and not lose their heads when trying to resolve a conflict with their partner.
They don’t expect their loved one to read their mind, so they are very clear about what they are thinking and feeling. They don’t bring up other people’s opinions or use comparisons to try to get their partner to see things from their perspective. Above all, Aquarians try not to accuse their partner or put them in a corner.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
When Pisces tries to resolve a relationship conflict, they make sure the person next to them knows they are loved.
Pisces try to convey to their partner how much they appreciate him/her and how grateful they are to have him/her in their lives. If they have to apologize for their behavior, Pisces will do so and admit when they are wrong. The most important thing is that they will not have such discussions if one of them is tired, and not even in the bedroom, which is a sanctuary for Pisces.