How to make him feel loved and less insecure, according to your zodiac sign

By finding out what makes him feel insecure, you’ll have the chance to make things right and make him feel loved.

Aries(March 21 – April 20)

You like to take on leadership roles and come across as very independent and confident. While these are all great qualities, they could also be the cause of your partner’s insecurities.

Men like to feel useful and needed. Your confident attitude and native ability to lead can make him feel like you don’t have a place for him in your life as well. And perhaps these were the qualities that attracted him to you when he first met you.

You might also make him feel useless and that is one of the worst feelings anyone could experience.

If you realize your partner’s insecurities, talk to them honestly. Tell him how much you love and appreciate him and that you want him in your life forever. He needs to hear these words from you!

Taurus(April 21 – May 21)

You can be overprotective and possessive at times. Possessiveness in a relationship can easily surface when you are insecure and don’t trust yourself. If you have a partner who is also insecure, this could be a recipe for disaster.

Your partner may show their insecurities by being possessive like you, which creates an unhealthy and codependent relationship.

If you trust your partner, loosen the belt! And if you don’t trust him, then why are you with someone you can’t trust?

Try to let go of your own insecurities and your partner will see this and may follow suit.

Gemini(May 22 – June 21)

Your sign is known for being indecisive. This can cause a lot of insecurities in your partner. One day you might give her so much love and affection and the next day you barely send her a single text.

The indecisiveness and the fact that you change your attitude so quickly can make the person next to you extremely confused and wonder if you really want to be with them.

You are also very sociable and enjoy being around people. While it’s important to hang out and spend time apart, make sure you give your partner equal attention. He might feel neglected, which causes those feelings of insecurity.

Cancer(June 22 – July 21)

You are an emotional person, but you often keep those feelings to yourself. Sharing your personal life with someone else can be extremely uncomfortable and difficult for you.

Your fears of opening up to someone and your ability to close yourself off can cause insecurities in your life partner. He may feel that he did something wrong that caused you to resort to silence.

Yes, it’s hard, but opening up to your boyfriend or husband will make you feel closer to him. The relationship will be stronger and you will make him feel so special knowing that he is one of the people you can trust to tell him your most intimate feelings. 

Leo(July 22 – August 22)

Your attitude can be reckless, while you expect a lot from your partner. If your boyfriend or husband puts in all the effort and he doesn’t get the same in return, his insecurities might start to surface.

He’ll feel like you don’t care enough about the relationship and are trying too hard to make it work on your own. Start showing you care by making him feel as special and loved as he makes you feel.

If you start making efforts, he will see immediately and the relationship would be more harmonious. No one wants to feel like they’re the one doing all the hard work to make something work. You have to work together as a team.

Virgo(August 23 – September 22)

You like things done a certain way and you expect everyone to be like you. You and your partner are not the same person. Don’t expect him to always want the same things and act the same as you.

Your partner may feel judged by you all the time and this can make them very insecure. No one likes to be told they are doing something wrong every day. Don’t be too critical of your partner!

Accept him for who he is because we are all different and our differences are what make us unique. If you notice yourself starting to criticize, learn to control yourself. This practice of yours is slowly starting to make him lose his confidence. He will not want to be with someone who constantly puts him in the corner, learn to praise him and bring positivity into the relationship. 

Libra(September 23 – October 22)

You know best what it’s like to hold a grudge. Holding a grudge is very unhealthy. They can lead to anger, negativity and a mean attitude. If your partner did something that upset you and you talked about it, move on.

If it was something really important that really affected you, either take some time to think about it or speak openly and from the heart. Holding a grudge will only make things worse in the relationship. You and your partner will not be able to overcome the problem and it will continue to breed others.

Your partner will become insecure because of a single mistake they made that caused you to be so vindictive towards them. It’s important to know when to stop or it will end up breaking up.

Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)

You are a mysterious person sometimes. Even if you’re not hiding anything, it can look like you’re doing something suspicious. Your partner may sense this and become insecure.

A million thoughts could run through his head. Thoughts that are most likely negative and will breed insecurity. If you’re acting in secret, the first thing they might think of is that there’s someone else in your life.

The thought that you are cheating on him will stick in his mind and tension will start to appear in the relationship.

Try to be more open with him and make sure you have those difficult conversations when either of you are feeling down about something. 

Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)

You cannot be tamed. You don’t like to feel trapped and you hate being constrained. You need to be free and be able to do your own thing. It is possible that your partner will not give his seed at first and this is where the insecurities come in.

He might think you’re not interested in him, when in fact you really don’t like being too dependent on someone else. If he’s a clingy guy, your outgoing ways will only make him want to cling to you even tighter.

You are also known for not having a thought filter. You say things as they come to you, whenever you feel like it and no matter how ugly those words may be. Your words can hurt your partner and make him lose his self-confidence.

Try to present what you’re thinking in a gentler and nicer way, and address any expectations about the relationship early on so your partner isn’t left with the feeling that you don’t care about them.

Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)

You are stubborn and sometimes you want to seem like you know everything. These things can make your partner feel like they are not as smart as you. It will make him insecure because he will feel that he is not helping you at all.

He will feel like you already know everything, so you have nothing more to learn from him or to tell you. Any relationship teaches you new things and it’s very important to realize that.

It’s okay to be wrong sometimes. Don’t let stubbornness stop you from admitting when you do. Most of the time, wanting to prove that you are right at all costs is not worth long and pointless arguments. 

You are an independent person. Unlike other relationships, you never let your partner down. Why ask someone to do something for you when you can do it yourself? Your independence can make your partner feel that you don’t want them around and this can make them insecure.

He’ll feel like you don’t need him, and that makes him cling even more to the relationship, be suffocating, and seek attention. His clingy attitude will start to annoy you and may be the cause of many arguments. In this case, the only thing not to do is to be cold and distant.

He will insist that something is wrong and pester you with questions until he gets answers. He will interrogate you as if you were a criminal because he is insecure and you are not helping him, you are making him worse.

Be open and honest about what you want from this relationship so that neither of you ends up disappointed.

Pisces(February 19 – March 20)

You know how to play the victim in any argument. This makes your partner always seem to be the only one to blame for everything. He is the one who takes most of the punches in the fight.

Remember it takes two to tango. Sometimes, you could be just as guilty of something as he is. If you constantly play the victim, he will become insecure because you make him feel like he is always doing something wrong.

Don’t be afraid to admit your own mistakes. He’ll appreciate that you take responsibility when things go wrong. Don’t let the burden fall on him all the time!