What is he really looking for in a relationship? What he wants and what he needs can be very different things!
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
Aries thinks he needs someone to always be head over heels in love with. When he first meets someone, he is so overwhelmed with passionate feelings that he thinks he needs it throughout the relationship. In reality, his feelings for someone will grow and change over time, so he needs a partner who can change and evolve with him. Aries likes the idea of having someone who excites them and gives them a reason to get up every morning.
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
Taurus loves very deeply and is not afraid to let their true feelings come out when they are with someone they really like. Because of this, he thinks he needs a girlfriend who loves him as intensely as he does, when in fact he needs someone who is proud to have him as a partner and who can shout this out loud thing. He wants someone who will go out of his way to show him that he loves him unconditionally. Knowing that she loves him is all that matters to him, but not necessarily what he needs.
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
The Gemini native believes that he needs a girlfriend who will keep him on his toes and who is as intense and in love as he is.
For him, a relationship must be full of spontaneity and surprise. Of course, there’s a lot more to a relationship than the craziness that comes with the honeymoon phase, but Gemini won’t stay in the relationship so they can experience all the other things, and they need that in their life.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
Cancer thinks he needs to meet HER. In fact, whenever she meets someone new, she wonders if it could be someone she sees herself with for the rest of her life. Being such an affectionate and loving person, Cancer thinks he needs someone to take care of him. However, he must be careful that someone does not take advantage of his love and caring nature. He already has an idea of what the perfect relationship looks like, but he wants someone who has similar plans for the future. The girlfriend he really needs must be loyal and stand by him no matter what. When he knows he can count on someone, everything becomes possible.
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
Leo wants his relationship to be hot and passionate. When looking for his perfect girlfriend, he looks for someone who can give him all the affection and attention he needs. He thinks his girlfriend needs to be his personal cheerleader. While it’s nice to have someone by his side who tells him exactly what he wants to hear, it’s much more important to have someone who challenges him to work hard and improve.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
The Virgo native doesn’t like to play around, so with every date they think that that new person could be the one they stay with forever. Because of this mentality, he believes he needs someone he can call his hero, a girlfriend who will be everything to him. However, he doesn’t need a perfect girlfriend who can check off everything on his list. What he is really looking for in a girlfriend is to be able to love him for who he is and what he really wants is just some acceptance and understanding. When his girlfriend can bring out the best in him and keep up with him emotionally and intellectually, he is at his happiest.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
Libra believes that the perfect relationship is one where romance and passion never die. When he thinks about what he needs, it usually boils down to little surprises, tons of affection, and lots of quality time. For him, romance is important, but sometimes he is so caught up in this aspect that he doesn’t think about what else he needs. What he really needs is someone who loves him, period. The ideal girlfriend is someone with whom he can be happy, make memories with, and who truly values the relationship.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
Scorpio believes that they need intense passion to be happy in a relationship. He tends to be most attracted to women who make him go a little crazy in love, who make him obsessed with them. Because of this, he believes that he needs someone who wants the same sabbatical relationship that he wants. However, in addition to this physical passion, he seeks acceptance. Sometimes he hides what he really wants under a physical connection because it’s simpler than an emotional one. He really wants someone he can trust, someone who makes him feel appreciated and valued for who he is.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is an adventurer. Ask him what he needs in love and he’ll tell you a little bit of everything. In other words, he likes the idea of choosing what he likes. What he thinks he needs is someone who won’t make him feel tied down or trapped in a monogamous relationship. Of course, he doesn’t realize that this makes him seem a little selfish or selfless. What he really wants in a girlfriend is to make him want to stay in a relationship and not have to try to find ways out if things go wrong.The right person for him is the one who gives him the freedom he needs to be himself without making him fear that he’s going to lose a part of himself to stay in the relationship. Acceptance and independence are essential to him, as is honest communication.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn is looking for someone to stay with for life. He believes he needs a girlfriend who is as determined and focused on her goals as he is. It’s also a zodiac sign that feels uncomfortable when there’s no independence in the relationship, so it thinks it needs someone who sees freedom as a necessity. However, what he really needs is a girlfriend to inspire and motivate him. If there is too much independence in a relationship, that relationship may not actually exist at all. In reality, he wants someone who can fend for herself, but who asks for help from time to time.
Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)
When thinking about his ideal girlfriend, Aquarius believes he needs someone unique and different in the way he thinks, feels and expresses himself, but he also believes he needs someone very similar to him. The girlfriend he really needs is actually someone he can have fun with. He might like to be with a girl who looks like him, but not so similar that he feels like he’s dating himself. Independence is also essential. Aquarius does not want to feel that the relationship is based on the desire to control each other.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
Relationships mean idyllic stories for the Pisces native. When he thinks about what he needs from a girlfriend, his mind often runs to that dream where everything is perfect and beautiful all the time. The man of this sign likes to imagine what the perfect relationship would look like, rather than going out and experiencing it for himself. Because of this, his standards might seem far too high for the average person. What he really needs is a little more realistic than what he thinks he needs. He wants a girlfriend who will understand him and encourage him to reveal his romantic side. The commitment may be scary for him, but knowing that his girlfriend will be able to make him feel comfortable with himself and in the relationship, then he won’t be discouraged.