Why she doesn’t trust him depends on the sign
Having low self-esteem is not something that usually comes on quickly or can be easily managed.
Often, the reason we have low self-esteem is because we get stuck in a cycle of negative things about ourselves, which turns into a downward spiral that is hard to break out of.
It takes time to transform that negative self-image into something positive, so it’s important to persist if it doesn’t happen right away.
And if your partner is the one with low self-esteem, take the time to find out why they’re dealing with these trust issues so you can be there for them.
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
Aries has low self-esteem because they are always criticizing themselves.
He is so competitive with himself not only because he wants to be the best of the best, but also because he feels he needs to constantly improve as a person.
All people know how hardworking he is. He is the type of person who constantly strives to achieve his goals and set new ones.
Due to the immense pressure, Aries’ self-esteem drops when they feel they cannot live up to this image.
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
Taurus’ need for stability rules their lives. It’s about security in relationships, in terms of money or his career.
The reason he has low self-esteem is that no matter how hard he tries to maintain this stability, he still lives with the fear that he is not doing enough.
Sure, he may have a steady job and some money saved for emergencies, but in the back of his mind he’s always thinking that maybe he’s not doing as well as he should be at this point in life. The same goes for friends and family.
Geminis have never been good at making decisions. They tend to overthink and question whether or not they are doing the right thing.
The reason for Gemini’s low self-esteem is that they feel like they are constantly making bad choices and just drifting through life without direction.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
Cancer is an incredibly sensitive zodiac sign. His mood swings very easily when his feelings are hurt or when there is stress in his relationships. Speaking of his relationships, this is where most of his low self-esteem comes from.
Cancer puts too much emphasis on his relationships, but if you tell him that, he probably won’t agree with you. When he fights with someone he loves or when a relationship ends, he blames himself for it all, even though it’s not his fault.
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
Leo is one of the hardest working signs. He is constantly fighting to achieve his goals and make a name for himself. While he thrives best in a fast-paced environment, this can also lead to very low self-esteem.
The reason he has low self-esteem is because he puts too much pressure on himself to succeed. He wants to prove to others that he is the successful man they all think he is, even if it means pushing himself too hard. He prefers to keep the doubts to himself, if only to save face.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
Virgo is one of those signs that tends to split the thread into four and overanalyze everything. Even when she tells herself there’s nothing to worry about, her mind seems to be going crazy.
The reason for Virgo’s low self-esteem is that they create problems in their heads that don’t exist.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
Libra is one of the quieter signs, meaning it is not outspoken or bold in conversation or behavior. Although this is not a problem because he has a lot of other strengths, it can still be the reason for his low self-esteem.
Libra can be very confident when they don’t listen to the opinions of others. But, the reason why he has low self-esteem is precisely because he listens to others. He also finds it hard to speak up and assert himself when it matters most. And when people pick on this weakness of hers, she convinces herself that she is destined to remain insecure.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
Try as they might, Scorpio can’t help but think about what could have been instead of looking to the future. For him, life is about evolving and learning, but he can’t do that if he’s stuck in the past.
The reason Scorpio has low self-esteem is because they tend to stay anchored in the past and let resentment rule their lives. He wants to be able to go through life as an optimist, but instead he is a realist. A realist who can’t help but blame himself for past mistakes.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius likes to think that there is nothing in the world to influence him, that he is his own master through and through. While this is certainly admirable, this way of thinking is not always possible.
The reason for Sagittarius’ low self-esteem is their tendency to sometimes trust others more than themselves. He wants to be liked by everyone, so he lets his friends and family decide who and how he should be, rather than listening to himself. When he finally realizes that he is unhappy, this causes his self-esteem to drop further.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn is very hardworking. He’s the kind of person who gets up early and stays up late just to fix something totally unimportant, even if he’s broke.
But, like the rest of the signs, he also faces low self-esteem. Why? Because he’s incredibly hard on himself, even when he’s doing well in life. He blames himself for even the smallest thing because sometimes he feels that he does not deserve what he has earned.
Aquarius likes to think they’re above it all, but that’s not always true. In fact, behind the Aquarian’s confidence is a lot of self-doubt.
The reason why Aquarius has low self-esteem is that they often doubt themselves and their abilities. When he succeeds, he worries that he’s not good enough, and when he fails, he can become overly dramatic and act like it’s the end of the world.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
Pisces are very sensitive and because of this they often struggle with trust issues. The reason their self-esteem is so low is that they take everything personally, including things that happen in other people’s lives.
Being very empathetic, they often take on the problems of others, even when they have nothing to do with them.
