You are confusing self-confidence and self-love.
However, you can give yourself love. No matter how great the insecurity you sometimes have, you can value your feelings. Put yourself first and be better with yourself.
You consider that any situation you are going through is solely your fault.
You often feel that you could have done more things, and because of this, you don’t focus on the important things. You tend to lose control when things are moving fast.
The only mistake you make is that you have too big a heart, and for this reason, you tend to give too many chances to people who don’t deserve your attention.
If you want to give yourself more love, start by eliminating toxic people.
It is much easier for you to criticize yourself at every step than to give yourself compliments. And this habit is perfectly normal for you. You are a perfectionist, which is why you will fault yourself most of the time. Try to be more indulgent with yourself!
You give way too much attention to other people and for this reason, you forget to pay attention to your feelings. Maybe it’s time to be more selfish and give yourself more time. Start paying more attention to everything you feel and give yourself love. You will feel better.
You compare yourself far too often with other people. It is not a wrong thing, but it affects you more than you think. If you want to make progress and give yourself more love, change the focus on yourself!
Sometimes you tend to think that you don’t deserve to be happy. It is a thought that has a strong influence on you and, once installed, it is difficult for you to give it up. In other words, you accept your sadness.
You are quite cynical most of the time. You are very critical of other people and you are very critical of yourself. And this is the main reason why it is difficult for you to give yourself love.
You focus far too much on the negative aspects. You condemn yourself for every mistake you make and you don’t allow yourself to be yourself. Any success is something natural for you, which is why you don’t celebrate it properly.
You tend to place other people on a pedestal. To consider that others are better than you and that some things are not made for you. For these reasons, you often end up not seeing yourself in a very good light.