Don’t know if he loves you or is using you? Are you caught in the middle and living with this uncertainty that does not give you peace? His zodiac sign can give you the answer!
If you ask anyone, casual sex works if both partners are on the same page about their relationship.
If one person thinks there’s a chance for things to get serious and the other person is only in it for the sex, there will be a huge disconnect that will eventually destroy the dynamic.
Instead of feeling like you matter, at least in some way, you feel like all you are to the other person is a body they can use whenever they want.
Fortunately, there are other ways to find out what he really wants from the relationship!
Body language, all those subtle, unconscious things he does in your presence, makes it much easier to read him and his intentions with you.
Of course, all zodiac signs are different, which means that one sign’s behavior could be the opposite of another.
And if you’ve ever read your horoscope, you know this is definitely true.
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
Aries aren’t exactly discreet when it comes to their feelings for someone, so don’t be surprised if they tell you right away that they just want sex!
But, this is not his basic way of letting you know that he just wants a fling with you.
Simply put, Aries will make you feel unimportant. Instead of being his destination, you will be more like a stop for him.
Look at it this way: if he’s planning to meet his friends at 10pm and thinks he has time before he rushes over to you around 9, that’s definitely a shallow move on his part. If you don’t mean much to him, then he won’t pretend. At least you will know!
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
Taurus can be hard to read, especially since he likes to make all his partners, serious or passing, feel good.
Casual relationships sometimes consist of dating and spending time outside of the bedroom as well, but with Taurus, this is totally unheard of. Taurus knows how to separate serious prospects from friendships with benefits.
You know when a Taurus is using you if they meet you at your place, have sex, and leave. They might make small talk or give you a hug, but don’t expect them to ask you if you want to eat something together or meet up on the weekend.
Taurus is pretty good at figuring out who will stick with them for the long haul and who won’t, so you’ll know it too!
Geminis are great at communication and this goes double when it comes to the people they are serious about.
Because of this, it is common for the Gemini native to be in constant contact with you if he feels that you have a future together. If he only uses you for sex, he will never text you, period.
Texts and calls seem too personal for this man and he will want to make sure he keeps some distance from you if all he wants is sex.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
Cancer is an incurable romantic, so he is usually the one to make the first move. When he really likes someone, he will always make the first move. This goes for everything from texting and calling to asking out and making the relationship official.
When Cancer only uses you for sex, he will never be the one to text you. To him, it’s just sex, so even if you never text him again, he’ll find someone else to.
When he wants you to be more than friends with benefits, he will be the first to contact you, almost always, because he will be afraid of losing you.
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
When a Leo is in love with someone, they become the type of person who is ready to drive to your place in the middle of the night just because they want to kiss you. So if you have a Leo, cherish it!
But, it can be hard to decipher if he really likes you or if he just wants sex from you.
At first, it may seem like he likes you just to make you like him more, but once he realizes his true feelings, his attitude changes dramatically. That’s how you can figure out his intentions with you.
Instead of making time for you, Leo always makes excuses. Suddenly he can’t make it to your weekend getaway with friends. Or that he didn’t know he’d have to cancel his movie date with you, so he does it at the last minute. Sure…
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
The Virgo native is that kind of person who is always there for his friends, family and people important to him. When he takes care of his partner, that includes sex, he wants to know what you like and what turns you on.
But if he just wants you to be friends with benefits and just wants a one-night stand, that won’t happen anymore.
Instead of paying attention to his partner, he ends up becoming more selfish with his needs. He doesn’t think that person is important enough to want to get to know them better, so there’s no reason to make them feel special during sex.
This personality change is not obvious to everyone, and if you don’t know him well enough, it can be downright impossible to read his intentions, so you have to be very careful with these men.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
The Libra native is a fan of serious relationships, because it’s a chance to incorporate someone he cares about into his daily routine, and he really likes this.
He will go out of his way to include his partner in almost everything he does, whether it’s shopping or family gatherings.
When Libra only uses you for sex, you won’t get any of these benefits. On the other hand, you can clearly tell that he just wants a fling when he constantly changes his plans with you.
He might let you think you’re planning something with him, or he might cancel the plans altogether, but his lack of interest in anything other than sex will be obvious.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
Scorpio can be a highly passionate person who enjoys sex and relationships, but there’s one thing he can’t live without: his friends. If anything can be better than sex, it’s friendship.
When you are friends with a Scorpio, then you have a friend for life. He will do his best to make sure you know that too.
When Scorpio is only using you as a friend with benefits, he doesn’t consider you a friend, period. This is because he doesn’t want to care about you or be there for you when you need him. It’s harsh, but it’s true. Instead, all he wants is to have sex.
If he wanted a serious relationship with you, then you would see him being able to open up about things that aren’t always easy to talk about.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is quite difficult to settle in his house, so it is almost impossible to tell if he really likes you or just wants sex. You might think you know, but you don’t at all.
His feelings can fluctuate depending on how he feels at the time, and that internal monologue constantly telling him to change his mind doesn’t help.
One thing you can count on when it comes to reading his feelings for you is that when he only wants a physical relationship, he’ll just end up texting or calling you at 3am with the aim of hanging out a few passionate hours together.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn isn’t too comfortable with the idea of friends with benefits or one-night stand situations, but there’s an exception to every rule.
When Capricorn is looking for a forever partner, they like to go through all the stages associated with a serious relationship. That involves a first date, then meeting the parents, moving in together, up to marriage and children.
If he’s using you, not only will he not do any of this, but the only thing more important to him than following these steps is not introducing you to his friends. He values his friends’ opinions a lot, and if he only wants you for sex, don’t expect that to happen.
You might think there’s more going on between the two of you, but his actions will tell you otherwise.
Aquarius spends his whole life looking for people around whom he can be himself and who love him for who he is. Of course, this takes time, and not everyone who enters his life is lucky enough to see the real Aquarius.
And while it could go either way, serious relationships or casual dating, he can be one of two different people depending on the type of relationship he’s in.
If an Aquarius is using you for sex, he won’t give you the option to learn more about him. Instead of staying ahead or staying behind, he will do what he came to do and then go from there.
It’s impersonal, yes, but Aquarius is often impersonal until they start to feel comfortable with you in their life. If this impersonal attitude doesn’t change when you’re around, then he’s just not interested in you and being in a serious relationship with you.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
The Pisces native is a romantic person even when having sex casually, so he can sometimes be deceptive when he acts like a lover without taking responsibility.
There’s one major clue to look for if he’s just using you for sex, and that’s if he doesn’t stick around and fall asleep together afterwards.
Usually, if he has serious thoughts, he likes to spend more time with that person, snuggle and talk. If it’s just sex, don’t expect anything cute from him because he only spends time with people he cares about.