Some signs actually live the life of their partners, are suffocating and extremely dependent on them, while others can’t imagine not having personal space or their own things and activities completely separate from the person they are with!
Where do you fit in?
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
You are too busy and too independent a person to need your partner.
If you need something, you can do it yourself. You don’t want to be tied to anyone, so you tend to protect your heart a bit.
You don’t want to have to depend on someone and you don’t want to have to change your plans because of someone else’s feelings or fears.
You don’t need anyone’s help, that’s for sure!
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
You are patient and calm, so your dependence on your partner may not surface and cannot be seen. You have many needs, but you just don’t share them with the world.
You need to be right, you need to be loved and you need to be admired. You want to trust people, but it takes a long time to develop that trust. That doesn’t mean you’re independent at all, but that you’re selective about who you’re vulnerable with.
You can be very possessive of your boyfriend, but also of his personal possessions because you need these things to feel confident.
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
You are a mixture of dependence and independence, perhaps due to the duality of your zodiac sign.
You don’t want to be too attached to someone, but on the other hand, you don’t want to be ignored either. You want to be loved and to be sure that everything will be fine.
You can do things by yourself, but you prefer to be around people. You have an immense need to communicate and make yourself heard. Sometimes, you will bite off more than you can chew, which will make you anxious.
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
You need contact at any time.
If your partner is in the same space as you, there will be lots of affectionate touches from you. If he’s not in the same place as you, there will be a lot of calls and texts.
If you can’t get a hold of him or he doesn’t give you any news, you need someone to reassure you or you will worry. You can go from feeling good about your relationship to feeling abandoned very easily.
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
You think you are independent, but you depend entirely on attention and compliments.
You have to be the leader, the person everyone looks up to, and the star. If your partner doesn’t give you what you need, you will look for someone else.
You don’t spend too much time alone and you don’t like being alone. It may seem like you’re perfectly capable of being alone, and you really are, as long as you’re admired by a bunch of people.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
You don’t seem so needy and dependent on your partner, but you definitely have your moments too.
You can be fiercely independent, but dread the thought of not being good enough for your partner. So, you will do everything you can to make your lover happy and meet his needs.
If your partner needs attention, you will shower them with affection and kind words. If he needs space, you’ll find something else to do to occupy your time.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
You hate being alone, and if that means being dependent on your partner, then so be it!
You try to mask this constant need for him, but you won’t be able to fool anyone. You’re the type of person who waits for him to watch the next episode of his favorite series together or to try the new Thai restaurant when it’s available.
If your partner is going away, you’ll ask if you can go with them, whether it’s a boring business trip. As long as you don’t have to sleep alone, you will.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
In most cases, you are not dependent on anyone. But if you invest feelings in another person and that person doesn’t return the same affection, you become a little obsessed.
When you are the only one involved in the relationship, you become extremely dependent, and this dependence can manifest itself in very inappropriate ways. You just want the love you deserve, even though you may seem creepy.
You don’t consider yourself dependent and needy, but a person who goes after what she wants and gets it.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
You manage and develop best on your own, you don’t need anyone or anything.
Before you get involved in a relationship with someone, you train your partner about the independence and freedom you want as a couple.
It is very important for you to be allowed to do what you feel and be exactly as you are. To be accepted and not have anyone try to change you.
You know that if your partner trusts you, you become even closer to him.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
You do very well on your own, but when you get involved in a relationship with someone, you can develop a certain dependence on that person.
It’s like you have to make sure that if you show how much you need someone, that person will never leave you or betray you.
Family is very important to you, but you won’t make a rash decision just to start the process of building a life with someone. You will be careful and take small steps until you are sure you can trust him.
You are independence incarnate.
You like to do things alone, such as traveling, hiking or camping. You keep your feelings to yourself and try never to burden someone else with your problems.
Independence, self-sufficiency and being autonomous are qualities that you value enormously.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
Once you fall in love, the dependence on that person grows.
You are so selfless that you will do almost anything for anyone. If someone does you wrong, you will always give a second or even a third chance. You need someone to love, someone to make you feel loved and someone to share everything with.
You don’t like to do things alone. You are very sensitive and if you feel that your partner is losing interest, you will give even more love.
Needing your partner makes you extremely vulnerable and they can easily take advantage of you.