Learning how to stop loving someone takes time and patience. Maybe you have every reason to stop having feelings for him, but things aren’t as simple as you think!
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
The best way to stop loving him is to start loving someone else, namely yourself.
You put a lot into the relationship and now that it’s over, you don’t really know what to do. The reason you still hold on to it is a habit. The love you have for him will fade over time, but you better stop loving him now. Focus on that new project at work, start going to the gym and eating healthy, and repeat to yourself that you deserve to love every day and you will start to feel it.
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
When you were involved in the relationship, you were totally satisfied.
That person was your home, and now that it’s over, you feel lost. He was the one who brought stability to your life, but now that you’re single, you’re not sure where you’ll find that stability again. Your life is turned upside down, but there is a way to stop loving him so you can feel stable again. Now is the time to look at yourself. What do you want from life? Focus on inner enrichment and learn how to fend for yourself, and how to stand on your own two feet.
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
If you’re heartbroken, you might follow the advice that to get over someone you have to replace them with someone else.
But this won’t work for you for long. After that, you will still start to feel that something is missing from your life. Learning how to stop loving someone takes time, and even if you need someone to help you feel better, that person doesn’t have to be a new conquest, a new man to take their place. Right now, you need your friends. No one will be able to make you feel better than them!
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
Learning how to stop loving someone is hard for you.
You put everything into that relationship, and now that it’s over, you feel betrayed and sad. If you want to get over it, it’s okay to be sad, even if it means gorging yourself on popcorn and watching Netflix for hours. But, don’t underestimate the power your loved ones have to make you feel better. I’m in your life for a reason!
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
In the relationship that just ended, you got all the adoration you wanted.
But now that you’re walking through life alone, you’re left with a void that used to be filled with his love for you. Right now, you need someone to remind you how wrong you are thinking. Accepting that someone doesn’t love you anymore is a huge blow to your ego, and friends and family are the only ones who can heal you.
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
Forgetting a person you love is an exhausting task for you.
Your concern in love is to be the best partner a man could wish for. Now that it’s over, you have no one to care for and no one to love. If you want to stop caring about him, you have to give your love to another person. Focus on doing something good for others until you are ready to love again. Making others feel better makes you feel better.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
You want someone who can bring balance to your life and complete you, so when you’re dealing with a breakup, you might feel like your life is completely turned upside down.
Now it’s important to find that balance again and get back to your old self. You are very good at making others happy, but if you want to stop loving him, it’s time to become more selfish. Treat yourself to something that might cheer you up, then do a deep cleaning of your apartment and finally meditate on self-love.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
Stopping loving someone is difficult for you.
You spent so much time with that person, and now you have to let go of everything that relationship meant to you. It seems impossible to do, but you are much stronger than you think. One thing that always helps is to get your nerves out. Yes, your relationship is over, so why not burn all the photos of you and break some plates? After that, think about what might make you come back. What do you need now? By a friend? A kiss from a stranger? For a nap? Look within yourself for the answers!
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
This relationship was really important to you because it made you feel like you were evolving.
So, now that it’s over, you’re not sure if your evolution has stopped there or if you’re just getting started. If you want to stop loving him, sometimes walking away from all the feelings and thoughts you have right now is the best way. Go on a trip with your best friends or just get away from reality for a few hours. Giving your mind a break will help you decide your next step.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
It’s okay to feel sorry for how things ended in your relationship, but never blame yourself for it.
Your relationship was an investment for you, and now that it’s over, you probably feel like every decision you make is the wrong one. At this time, it is important to find support from friends and family. You may not know how to express yourself, but they know you better than anyone else. Be patient with your healing and let people come to you.
Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)
Even if your heart is broken, it is very easy for you to deny that you are affected.
And even though you still love him, you’re very good at convincing yourself that you don’t. Your emotions are probably being blocked somehow to stop the suffering. What will heal you is more alone time. Express your feelings through creative means until you begin to feel whole again.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
It might be hard enough for you to stop loving him, but deep in your heart, you’re also thinking about how ready you are to love again.
Losing someone makes you want to fill that void immediately. To stop holding on to it, embrace every feeling you have right now. Being in tune with what you feel makes you incredibly powerful. Reconnect with old friends, take better care of yourself inside and out, and do whatever it takes to feel loved.