Relationships are not easy to maintain. Two lives become one, so it’s only natural that misunderstandings arise at some point.
And whether we admit it or not, many of us have at least one personality flaw that sabotages our love lives. Once you discover it, you can take steps to change for the better!
Aries(March 21 – April 20)
As an Aries, you’re on a constant quest for adventure.
In other words, you’re pretty much everywhere! If someone doesn’t meet all your expectations and desires, you tend to get bored with that person. You destroy your relationships because you want them to always give you adventure. Sometimes being with the one you love is an adventure in itself, you don’t always have to do something new to have fun with someone.
Taurus(April 21 – May 21)
As a Taurus, you can’t let go of the past.
As time passes, you tend to hold grudges and use past situations against your life partner. You destroy your relationships by doing this. You don’t fully forget or forgive, and that puts a strain on your love life. If someone wrongs you in any way, they will probably pay for the rest of their lives.
Gemini(May 22 – June 21)
As a Gemini, your way of thinking is constantly changing.
It is difficult for you to have a firm point of view on a situation or a person. You destroy your relationships by thinking that the grass might be greener in another garden instead of watering where you are now. You won’t get lucky in love until you let go of the idea that something better awaits you elsewhere. Focus on what you currently have and appreciate it before you lose it!
Cancer(June 22 – July 21)
As a Cancer, you need to be in absolute control in a relationship.
You may find that you are very suffocating and stressful for your partner. And this happens because you want to know even the smallest detail about him at every moment. You want your relationships to be deep and real, which is great. But sometimes your intensity can be too much for the person next to you, which can completely push them away. You have to give it room to breathe, then it will come to you on its own!
Leo(July 22 – August 22)
As a Leo, you always just go your own way.
You constantly destroy your relationships due to the fact that you are not capable of compromise and think that your ideas are always the best. Things have to go your way and if someone doesn’t approve and follow you, you quickly cut them out of your life. Just because someone doesn’t have the same opinion as you, doesn’t mean they aren’t right. If you are not willing to let go, you will have no luck in love at all!
Virgo(August 23 – September 22)
As a Virgo, you get attached to the smallest things and your attitude turns sour very quickly.
Your partner is put off by your negativity. You destroy your relationships by letting pessimism rule your life. You can’t be happy with someone until you are happy with yourself. If you keep looking only at the negative side of life, you will never be able to enjoy all the beautiful things that life has to offer.
Libra(September 23 – October 22)
As a Libra, you are a delicate and fragile person.
Your sensitive nature is admirable, but sometimes you exaggerate. He can’t joke around you because your feelings usually end up getting hurt. Your relationships are destroyed because of this sensitivity that pushes the person away from you or causes fights that shouldn’t happen. You feel constantly under attack, when in fact you should stop taking everything so seriously or personally.
Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)
As a Scorpio, you destroy your relationships because you don’t give your partners a chance to prove who they are and what they can do.
You quickly become involved in a relationship with someone, but if that person is not what you expected, you immediately cut them out of your life. You don’t give him a chance to show his true self because you like drama.
Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)
As a Sagittarius, you are very practical with everything you do in life, especially in your romantic relationships.
You want to feel totally connected with your life partner, especially physically. And if you don’t feel that kind of connection, you immediately end the relationship. You start to feel like he’s not good enough for you. You are ruining your relationships by having such a high standard of passion. You don’t settle for mediocrity, which is good, but you have to realize that not everyone can be exactly what you want them to be.
Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)
Like Capricorn, you hide your feelings very well.
You have built a wall around yourself so that no one can get too deep into your soul. It suits you that way, because that way you protect your heart from being hurt. You destroy your relationships because you are not open to the person next to you. Your partners feel they have to pry any information or emotion from you and this leads them to believe you are hiding things from them.
Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)
As an Aquarius, you destroy your relationships with your careless behavior.
You might really care about someone, but not show it. You have an indifferent attitude towards your relationships and have never put your partners first to show them how important they are to you. Relationships take effort, and until you’re willing to put in the effort, you’re going to destroy every love story you have.
Pisces(February 19 – March 20)
As a Pisces, your need to be the life of the party can easily be mistaken for flirting or easy manners.
Your partner may think that your kindness is taken to extremes and cannot tolerate it. You love to talk to anyone and everyone around you. You always engage in conversation with strangers and are overly friendly. This is a great quality, but sometimes you overdo it. Your generous nature is seen as flirtatious by your partner and they will immediately think the worst. It’s good to be sociable, but think about whether it affects the one you love.