They are always victims. Each of us has met people with a complex of martyrs and pretending to be a victim. These people are sure that bad things happen to them all the time, but they are not at all to blame for this.
A person with a victim mentality loves to be pitied and is not shy about crying and wringing his hands to get her. And if you take astrology, usually these people belong to certain signs of the zodiac.
Since people with a victim mentality crave attention, it is better for them, if they are not pitied, to solve their problems and support them in this conviction. Their “poor me” attitude affects every aspect of their lives, including relationships, interactions with strangers, and work, and it often prevents them from being successful.
If you always expect failure or think that all your successes are temporary, you end up holding yourself back and are too afraid to step out of your comfort zone.
Some people feel like their mission in life is to cheer up a person with a victim mentality, thinking that if they could just convince them how special they are, that would help. However, it is more likely that someone with a martyr complex would rather drag another to the bottom than rise himself. 5 zodiac signs with a martyr complex:
1. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer people are constantly doing things for other people, and when they don’t get the praise they think they deserve, they can develop a martyr complex. The more their resentment grows, the more they believe that everyone but them is selfish jerks. Cancers do not understand that they expect too much from people, and this is not their fault.
2. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
If a Libra feels like they are being taken advantage of or hurt, they will hold back those feelings until they are “breakthrough”. They will explain how they sacrifice their time, energy, and money, but receive very little gratitude in return.
Why does Libra have to beg for you to show appreciation? Just praise them for everything they do.
3. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
When something bad happens, Pisces is the first to point out that it’s not their fault – they were only trying to help. And, perhaps, they did not fully think through everything or gave a chance to a person who did not deserve it, but they, in short, have nothing to do with it.
Pisces suffer because they take on too many other people’s problems and negativity.
4. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgos pride themselves on how conscientious they are and how they hold themselves to the highest standards. So when something goes wrong, it’s not their fault.
Virgos are the ultimate fixers, so if they make things worse or fail to fix what they’ve done, they consider it a conspiracy of the universe against them. If the boomerang came back to hit them in the ass, they would blame outside forces.
5. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns trust few people – they have been offended before, and they would prefer that this did not happen again. Capricorns tend to be suspicious of everyone’s motives and feel threatened where there is none.
If there is a wall around them, it is because the world is not safe, and people will use and scold them if they open their borders.