If you’re in a relationship with someone you’re always arguing with and you want to try to fix the problem, start by talking about things openly. Try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes and not make it all about you. Relationships need communication after all, and if you find yourself constantly on the defensive without doing anything about it, things will only get worse. At least you try, right?
Some signs really can’t get along with each other. Find out why and maybe you can do something about it!
Aries and Capricorn
Aries’ impatience and impulsiveness do not seem to be compatible at all with Capricorn’s thoughtfulness and reserved personality. Capricorn tends to approach issues in a more sensitive way, while Aries likes to dot the I’s and call a spade a spade. This major difference between them will cause Capricorn to refuse to talk anymore, which will cause even more problems and arguments.
Taurus and Aquarius
Taurus is very traditional when it comes to love, usually preferring to talk about money and future plans as a couple from the beginning of the relationship. On the other hand, Aquarius does not like to live according to society’s rules, preferring to take things as they come. The reason this couple fights so much is because Taurus embraces their vulnerability, while Aquarius shies away from it. Rather than being able to talk openly about whatever is bothering him, Aquarius prefers to solve problems on his own, which causes Taurus to become frustrated and convinced that they will never be able to break down this wall between them.
Gemini and Pisces
Pisces often struggle to understand Gemini’s way of thinking. Because Gemini can be quite unstable, agitated and counterintuitive, Pisces feels that it is impossible to get along with them.
Pisces prefers serious, heart-to-heart conversations, but Gemini likes to make fun of everything with an annoying ease. In Gemini’s eyes, however, Pisces are the ones to blame. Instead of listening to what they have to say, Pisces tend to make it all about themselves. This leads to arguments and emotional distancing.
Cancer and Libra
Cancer is incredibly loyal and devoted in their relationships, whether they are short or long lasting. Cancer knows that relationships cannot be without arguments. Although Libra agrees with this, she looks for relationships that have no problem, which is obviously impossible. Libra finds it hard to deal with Cancer’s constant pressure to take things to the next level, which often leads to confrontations. Another reason why this couple fights so much is that Libra’s passivity and constant search for balance makes it seem like they are hesitant to move forward with the relationship. Even though Libra can be very affectionate, Cancer worries that they don’t really care about being in a real relationship, they just want someone to keep them company.
Leo and Scorpio
Leo and Scorpio often clash because they are both very fierce and passionate. When you put two very powerful energies together, the result is often an explosion. Both are known for having an assertive and stubborn attitude when people disagree with them. Leo likes to be the leader and Scorpio has a hard time letting someone else tell them what to do. Often there are arguments and confrontations between these two signs, they are the result of the need for control and the refusal to give up control for fear of appearing weak. Also, the communication between the two isn’t great either, so it’s inevitable that they don’t argue.
Virgo and Sagittarius
Virgo tries to be practical in everything she does in life, and relationships and love are no exception. Virgo prefers to be as logical and simple as possible in her relationship, even if it makes her seem like a robot.
To her, it is safe and makes sense. Of course, it doesn’t make sense for Sagittarius, who prefers to write their own rules in the relationship. Sagittarius also needs freedom, which Virgo takes as an indicator that he is not one hundred percent committed to the relationship. Their arguments center on whether their relationship is serious or just a waste of time for both of them.