Why Does This Astrological Sign Have Trouble Confessing Their Feelings?
Big declarations and emotional tirades: this is not his thing. This zodiac sign is the type to hide his feelings and has a hard time saying “I love you”.
“A few words of love”, as in the song by Michel Berger, is already a lot for this astrological sign who is very modest. Quite the opposite of a flamboyant Leo or a talkative Gemini. Showing his emotions or expressing his affection, for him, is almost as difficult as climbing a mountain. And yet, he is the type to like challenges. What makes this astrological sign particularly secretive about his feelings? We give you the keys to understanding him and his subtle astrological languages of love.
Each astrological sign has its love language
While everyone has their way of seducing and their charm, the signs of the zodiac all have a different relationship with feelings. Cancer lives only for sweetness and does not skimp on compliments towards those they love, Pisces secretly dreams of a beautiful romance and makes it clear through their caresses, and Gemini does not hesitate to send love peaks in the form of humor. Libra, on the other hand, waits for the other to make declarations before saying “Thank you, me too”. Aries plays it more directly and relies on his frankness when Taurus prepares a picnic for you by the fire to tell you how much he cares for you in complete privacy. Some prefer lively exchanges, others rely on small attentions thinking that words fly away, but actions remain.
Amid all this excitement, the wave of cosmic love seems to have forgotten to carry Virgo, who, as a good Earth sign, can be difficult to open up to others. The solitary type, she does not give herself up easily. Which does not necessarily make her easy to seduce. She prefers reason to feelings, the marriage contract to the concept of exchanging vows. Of course, we are exaggerating, but Virgo is one of those who likes to be discreet about what her heart feels. So you will never hear her pour out her feelings or share her emotions on the pillow. However, she will know how to listen, protect the other, and advise him. This is her way of loving: remind you that you have an appointment at 3 p.m. at the doctor’s and that you must complete this file in two days and not in three years. Yes, managing your schedule and sharing a PowerPoint with you with the 50 things to do, see, and try during your romantic vacation is proof of her attachment. To hell with what people will say! But if you think Virgo is the worst zodiac sign when it comes to relationships, just wait until you find out how Capricorn has mastered the art of hiding their feelings…
Why Capricorn will (almost) never tell you “I love you”?
Born under the rule of Saturn, the planet of order, rules, stability, and laws, Capricorn is the most pragmatic sign of the zodiac. Often very Cartesian, he considers that everything must have an explanation, a reason, and a purpose. This is one of the reasons why he sees feelings as something uncertain, if not unstable. Not having control over what his heart can feel, he prefers to omit this “small detail” rather than let himself be carried away by desire and passion. He then suffers from the reputation of being a killjoy or “heart of stone”. Never letting himself be overwhelmed by feelings, he would even abhor outpourings of affection.
If it’s hard to imagine him saying “I love you”, it’s mainly because Capricorn hates making promises lightly. Extremely loyal and above all ready to do anything to keep his word, he often prefers to keep quiet. At least, until he is certain of the commitment he is making. In love, he needs to observe and test the person before giving his trust. For him, nothing is more detestable than someone who lies or worse, who cheats. So, faced with such poetic and romantic situations, Capricorn has trouble knowing where to stand. Where to start? How to be certain of the terms of the trust contract? Where is the dispute hidden? He needs to put everything in order before he can take the plunge. If this may seem austere, in reality, this tendency to hide his feelings is similar to a way of protecting himself. Capricorn, often considered to be demanding, sometimes lacks self-confidence. The future scares him, changes, and the unknown too. Problem: these are the three most exciting things in a relationship. When he feels reassured enough to understand how good it can be to get out of his comfort zone and dive into romance, he will reveal a whole other side of himself. More tender, sweeter, more loving. That’s how it is: with Capricorn, a compliment or an “I love you” has to be earned!
